Mox-ie noun: force of character, determination, nerve, or pep
Welcome to the March Edition of The Moxie!
Who the hell knows what they're doing anyway?
Hello,
It's been a hot minute since I last wrote The Moxie, and wow — life has been a whirlwind. Between wrestling tax returns, a boiler that chose to give up on life, a car that spectacularly failed its MOT (hello, unexpected new wheels!), the chaos of Christmas, my daughters birthday party and an exciting new freelance adventure with Borders Book Festival... I temporarily abandoned our newsletter ship.
Truth bomb: I adore writing to you. But, I've enjoyed taking my foot of one of the pedals for a bit and figuring out what lights me up and what I'm doing. There's so much pressure to have some masterfully crafted roadmap—a crystal clear vision that ties everything together in a neat bow. Spoiler alert: I don't have one. And you know what? That might be perfectly fine.
Because let's be real... who the hell actually knows what they're doing?
I used to imagine clarity was this magical destination where successful people lived, sipping lattes and checking off their plan. But here's what I'm learning: the real magic isn't in having an ironclad strategy—it's in chasing the sparks. Following those gut-punch moments of inspiration. Stepping through doors that suddenly appear when you dare to say yes to something that makes your heart race, even if it wasn't part of "The Plan."
What if not knowing is our secret weapon? What if the most extraordinary chapters of our lives — the ones that make us feel electric, unfold precisely when we leave room for life to surprise us? And what if sometimes dropping the ball isn't failure, but a natural part of being human and growing in new directions?
Maybe persistence (showing up again and again), even after gaps and detours—matters more than never missing a beat. Maybe it's okay to let some balls drop while we're catching new ones.
So if you're currently sailing your own ship through the fog of WTF am I doing? — welcome to the club. And perhaps, just perhaps, this beautiful uncertainty is exactly where the magic happens.
I'm dying to hear your story of when life's detour led you somewhere unexpectedly amazing? Hit reply and spill the tea.
In this months edition…..
P.S. The Moxie is back in action — no promises of perfection, but we're here, showing up, and that's the whole damn point. ❤️
If you’ve been craving more community, more connection, and more collaboration in your life, now is the perfect time to join us. Whether you’re looking for accountability, support, or just a space to breathe and be inspired, The Collectiv. is here for you.
2 x Coffee Coaching session per month: a place to connect and get coached
1 x Workshop per month to learn new things and get inspired
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What's Hot & What's Not, is the section where we keep you in the loop with the latest trends and what is falling in and out of favour. It is sprinkled with some of my own options, so take those with a pinch of salt!
What's Hot
Following the sparks instead of sticking to rigid plans
Letting go of the myth that successful people have it all figured out
Being honest about the balls we're dropping (and picking back up)
Persistence over consistency - showing up again after gaps
Making peace with the "WTF am I doing?" phase
Saying yes to things that make your heart race, even if they weren't on the roadmap
Treating uncertainty as a superpower rather than a weakness
What's Not
The pressure to have a crystal-clear vision at all times
Perfect planning that leaves no room for life's plot twists
The myth that clarity is a destination rather than a journey
Being everything to everyone (spoiler: it's impossible)
Beating yourself up when life gets messy
Forcing yourself to stick to "The Plan" when better opportunities arise
The idea that success only comes with perfect execution
Thinking you need to have it all mapped out before you can move forward
In this edition of The Moxie, we’re thrilled to introduce Collectiv. member Christine, a transformational coach and movement practitioner on the Isle of Lewis. With a background in community education, she left her role in mental health to support her family and discovered a passion for yoga, Nia, and coaching. Now, she empowers women through movement and self-love while dreaming of creating a Sensory Sanctuary on the island. Her journey is a powerful testament to resilience, joy, and following your intuition.
1.Can you tell us a bit about yourself and your background? What inspired you to do what you do?
My name is Christine, and I currently live on the gorgeous Isle of Lewis in the Outer Hebrides. I moved here in January 2013 with my lovely family; however, I am originally from Edinburgh and spent most of my twenties in sunny Leith, which I loved. My background is in Community Education, and I had a particular interest in working with young people—especially girls. I ran a Girls' Youth Group in my hometown with my sister for many years.
I have always been passionate about creating change and was particularly inspired by my dad, who was a political activist and socialist. He truly believed in people and their ability to become whoever they want to be in this world, regardless of social background. My mother, grandmother, and sister have also inspired me in different ways, and I feel so blessed to have learned so much from the women who raised and supported me.
I have three children, and in 2018, my third child, Ruaraidh, was diagnosed with autism. He later received diagnoses of ADHD, PDA, and a learning disability. His needs became more challenging when he started school, and after lockdown, I decided to leave my job as a manager at a mental health charity. I retrained as a yoga teacher because I needed to create space to be there for my family, but I also knew I needed something for me—something that not only lit me up but that I could share with the world.
This has honestly been the biggest gift. From there, I went on to train as a Nia teacher and later as a transformational coach. My work now focuses on supporting women through coaching, movement, and restorative practices, with an emphasis on empowerment, joy, freedom, and self-love. I love my work and am passionate about helping women and young girls break cycles of ancestral trauma and societal conditioning—encouraging them to lean into compassion and radical self-love.
2. What challenges or obstacles have you faced on your journey, and how did you overcome them?
One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced has been around my own self-belief—believing that I am a leader, that I am a business owner (WTF!). But perhaps that’s the beauty of it? I’m on this journey alongside those I work with, showing up exactly as I am.
Another challenge has been my socialist beliefs around money—who am I to ask people to pay me for my services? I know I have often leaned into a scarcity mindset. But that is changing. Now, I choose to move towards the things that bring me joy and light me up (I have the amazing Kat to thank for this), and guess what? It always works out better than I could possibly imagine. I am in my Ikigai—doing what I love, what I’m good at, and what the world needs.
3. Describe a moment or experience that was a turning point in your life or career. How did it impact you?
The turning point in my career was when I left my "proper job" to train as a yoga teacher. I had no idea at first what I was going to do. I spent many days walking in nature with my friend, reading oracle cards in the Castle Grounds in Stornoway, and allowing myself to be inspired. From that point, everything started to flow.
I knew I wanted to dance—I loved Nia. I knew I wanted to coach. And then, out of nowhere, my friend Kirstie introduced me to Kat and the Joy Movement… and well, the rest is history. I trained in Nia, then trained as a coach.
I had wanted to be a coach for a long time, but I never found the right fit. Then, I discovered Spectacular School. But joining felt so far out of my financial reach. I told myself a story—that people like me couldn’t afford it. But I wanted it so badly.
Then, in June 2023, my beautiful friend Alli died in the most tragic way. It was such a shock. She was a shining star, and as much as her death shook me, it reminded me how fleeting life is. So, I signed up for Spec School, trusting myself, my heart, and the universe that this was exactly where I needed to be. And once again—I was right.
My intuition is strong, and I’m learning to trust it more and more. Since then, my life has completely changed. I feel so much more confident and sure of who I am. I’m more willing to do the scary stuff and trust that I’ll be okay. Now, I choose expansion—knowing that it can be messy and uncomfortable, but also so freeing. Every time I expand, I feel more connected to who I truly am—my spirit.
4. What motivated you to join The Collective. (Or get coaching for me)
Kat was my coach throughout Spectacular School, so there was never any doubt in my mind that I’d be in her gang. Kat has inspired me so much—she is fiercely loving, calls me out on my bullshit, and her energy is magnetic. Her coaching continues to push me towards the life I choose, and I am so honored and grateful to be a 1:1 client and part of The Collectiv.
5. How has The Collectiv. helped you in achieving your goals or vision?
I love The Collectiv space. Being part of a group of powerful women who see each other’s power and hold each other’s hearts is priceless. I feel like I can bring anything to this space. The Collectiv is a place where I can plant seeds, nourish them, grow, and flourish.
I love being surrounded by like-minded women who are connected to their purpose and joy. In this space, I feel inspired, held, and celebrated. Being among these women gives me the confidence and belief that I can do it. I can do anything I want—as long as it aligns with what I truly desire. This space keeps me connected to that.
6. What are your future aspirations or goals? What’s next for you?
Ooooh, what’s next? So, so much!! That’s exactly why I have Kat as my 1:1 coach. I am someone who has lots of ideas and visions, and Kat supports me in getting clear and taking action.
Right now, I’m working on building the foundations of my business—getting rooted and connected to its purpose and making sure the basics are in place so I can continue to expand from a solid foundation.
I would love to create my own space on the island for sound healing, Nia, ceremony, and well-being. I dream of building a Sensory Sanctuary, and I’m loving this stage where I get to play with what that could look like.
I want to continue working with women in the area of female empowerment, and right now, I’m developing an online program I’ve been commissioned to offer to women living in the Western Isles.
I am so excited to step deeper and deeper into my Ikigai.
I am endlessly grateful to be doing what I love—and so grateful to Kat and The Collectiv for walking alongside me on this incredible journey.
Earworms....
DENIAL IS A RIVER
DOECHII
OBSESSED with - Doechii’s Denial is a River, she makes me feel like I’m listening to Lauryn Hill for the first time again - fresh, raw, and full of soul. It’s got that timeless quality but still feels completely new. Just one of those tracks that hits different.
Bookworms....
Alan Hollinghurst’s Our Evenings is everything I love about his writing — elegant, sharp, and completely immersive. It has that same rich, layered storytelling as The Line of Beauty, and I’m already lost in it. Just so beautifully written.
I hope you enjoyed this edition of The Moxie! If you have any questions or if you're curious about working with me one-on-one, don't hesitate to get in touch. let's explore the possibilities together!
Have a fabulous March!
See you soon
Kat x
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